{"id":367768,"date":"2024-03-22T13:27:02","date_gmt":"2024-03-22T12:27:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/naijaone.com\/?p=367768"},"modified":"2024-03-22T13:27:02","modified_gmt":"2024-03-22T12:27:02","slug":"ivory-coast-i-often-hide-myself-to-cry-says-carmen-sama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/benews.ci\/en\/ivory-coast-i-often-hide-myself-to-cry-says-carmen-sama\/","title":{"rendered":"Ivory Coast: &#8220;I often hide myself to cry,&#8221; says Carmen Sama"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Carmen Sama, the widow of DJ Arafat, opened up to her followers about the challenges she faces as a single mother during a Q&amp;A session on Snapchat. She discussed the difficulties she faces in raising her daughter, Rafna, alone, filling both the roles of mother and father since the tragic death of the Coup\u00e9-D\u00e9cal\u00e9 star in 2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Since DJ Arafat&#8217;s tragic passing, Carmen Sama has not entered into a new relationship. She strives to manage Rafna&#8217;s upbringing as best as she can, well aware of the absence of a father figure. On her Snapchat, while answering her followers&#8217; questions, she was asked how she manages to juggle the doubled responsibilities of a parent and to keep smiling for her daughter, acknowledging her incredible courage in face of this situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Frankly speaking, Rafna&#8217;s mother answered the question sincerely. &#8220;<em>Honestly, I don\u2019t know where this strength comes from to be able to play both roles without her feeling the absence of her father. But it&#8217;s very hard. Especially at school, at parent-teacher meetings where you see each child with both parents,&#8221; she said. And she continued: &#8220;I often hide to cry. Then in front of her, I come back smiling as if nothing happened. If it were up to me, Rafna would remain an only child. I always dreamed of having children from a single father, but man proposes, God disposes&#8230; Given the circumstances.<\/em>&#8220;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Carmen Sama, the widow of DJ Arafat, opened up to her followers about the challenges she faces as a single mother during a Q&amp;A session on Snapchat. She discussed the difficulties she faces in raising her daughter, Rafna, alone, filling both the roles of mother and father since the tragic death of the Coup\u00e9-D\u00e9cal\u00e9 star [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":365857,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_trash_the_other_posts":false,"editor_notices":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[],"pays":[133],"personnalite":[83],"class_list":{"0":"post-367768","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-celebrity","8":"pays-ivory-coast","9":"personnalite-carmen-sama"},"acf":{"type_de_publication":"opinion","nom_de_linstitution":"","description_de_linstitution":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/benews.ci\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/367768","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/benews.ci\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/benews.ci\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/benews.ci\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/benews.ci\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=367768"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/benews.ci\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/367768\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/benews.ci\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/365857"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/benews.ci\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=367768"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/benews.ci\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=367768"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/benews.ci\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=367768"},{"taxonomy":"pays","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/benews.ci\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pays?post=367768"},{"taxonomy":"personnalite","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/benews.ci\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/personnalite?post=367768"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}